i have finally managed to not

look at people from a prejudiced point of view,
not to judge them from what you have heard,
not to treat them badly, though rumors are flying about, intensifying that person's notorious behaviour/actions.

what for?
why let those rumors affect you?

you would be merely causing great harm and hurt to the so-called victims.

you don't know.
you're not the vicitims,
so you'll never really understand the pain and turmoil that they are going through.

so, on a lighter note,
why not stop looking at someone with eyes so tainted with prejudice?

you'd realise that
perhaps, just perhaps,
that person's not so bad after all... (: